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~ October 27, 2011 ~
 

[Our story, as told by Scott ... because Jillian was so excited (or so I tell myself) that, minutes after I proposed, she couldn't even remember if she'd said yes.]

The story of our proposal ends on October 27, 2011, but begins about five months earlier when I left to spend the summer working in Seattle. It was here, just a couple weeks into my trip, that I realized I wanted to spend the rest of my life with Jillian. Before I left, three months in a new city was exciting and something I had eagerly looked forward to experiencing. But homesickness set in fairly quickly, and I found that I missed Jillian more than anything. While the initial loneliness of being across the country eventually faded and I had an awesome summer, I definitely remember the experience as being what completely convinced me that we should get married.

While I was living in Seattle, I was working in Bremerton - so those familiar with the area will know that meant I took an hour ferry to and from work every day. I decided early on that it would be a fun idea to hand write letters to Jillian, a nice sort of throwback contrast to the occasional video chats and frequent phone calls we had. I wrote her letters about two or three times per week on my ferry rides home from work. The catch was that, early on, I planned to have these letters eventually become part of the proposal, so I made sure to capitalize the first letter of each one I sent home. I figured it might be to obvious if they spelled out "WILL YOU MARRY ME?" in chronological order, so I created a second "hidden message" in case she caught on. In chronological order, the capitalized letters spelled out "HEY GIRL, I LOVE YOU SO MUCH. NO MORE WAITING." If your good with decoding, you'll notice that taking out some of these letters and rearranging them can give you "WILL YOU MARRY ME?" The picture above is the final product of this.

Once I had sent the letters, I trusted that she'd keep them and not throw them away - obviously a calculated risk on my part, but it worked out. When it came down to the day I was going to propose, I found the stack of letters she'd kept, pulled out the ones I needed, taped them together in the order I needed and put them in a long envelope. We went out to dinner and I was cool and calm the whole time. But after we'd finished eating and I realized there was only one thing left I started getting pretty nervous. However, the truly clutch part of my whole plan was that if I totally choked, I could just hand her the note and run away until she read it and made a decision. Fortunately I was able to muster my overly rehearsed line that I had "one more letter that I wrote in Seattle," hand her the envelope and wait for her response. When she opened it and realized what was happening, her eyes got wide, she looked at me and said ... "Are you serious? Is this real?" That's when I pulled out the ring, got down on one knee, told her I was serious and this was for real, and asked her to marry me. The rest is history.

... and in case the very beginning made you wonder, she did in fact say, "Yes."


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